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Familiaris Consortio §84 (1981)
Pope St. John Paul II’s 1981 apostolic exhortation on the family — and the single paragraph that has stood, for forty-five years, as the canonical magisterial reference on the pastoral care of the divorced and the divorced-and-remarried. The three categories of the divorced, the Eucharistic discipline, the path of return through Penance and continence, and the prohibition on quasi-sacramental blessings of irregular unions — said once, by the saint, in 822 words.
What this document is. A post-synodal apostolic exhortation — the form a pope uses to gather and promulgate the conclusions of a Synod of Bishops. Familiaris Consortio (“On the Family,” sometimes translated “The Fellowship of the Family”) was issued by Pope St. John Paul II on 22 November 1981 (the Solemnity of Christ the King) following the 1980 Synod of Bishops — the sixth Ordinary General Assembly, convoked to deliberate on “The Christian Family in the World of Today.” It is the most extensive papal teaching on marriage and family of the twentieth century. Within it, §84 is the single paragraph addressed to those whose marriages have ended in divorce and, in some cases, civil remarriage. It is the canonical magisterial reference cited by every subsequent document on the question — CCC §§1650–1651 (1992), Sacramentum Caritatis §29 (Benedict XVI, 2007), Amoris Laetitia Chapter VIII (Francis, 2016) — all stand in conversation with this paragraph.
Why the petitioner reads it. Because every confessor who has ever sat with you on this question has §84 in his head when he answers you, whether he says so or not. Because the three categories of the divorced that §84 names (the unjustly abandoned, the gravely culpable, and the one who entered a second union for the children’s sake) are the three categories your own situation falls inside — somewhere. Because the path of return through Penance and continence (“brother and sister”) was named, by name, by the pope who would later be canonized for, among other things, the integrity with which he taught the doctrine of marriage. And because the petitioner who reads §84 first — before reading Sacramentum Caritatis, before reading Amoris Laetitia, before reading anything else — receives the doctrine in its strongest and most paternal voice from a saint who knew, intimately, the suffering of broken families in the country he had buried.
How §84 is structured. Eight natural paragraphs. (1) The pastoral problem named without softening. (2) The duty of pastors to exercise careful discernment, and the three categories. (3) The pastoral call to help the divorced (and here “divorced” means the divorced as such, before any question of remarriage) to remain in the life of the Church. (4) The Eucharistic discipline regarding the divorced-and-remarried, with its theological grounding in the contradiction between their state and the union signified by the Eucharist. (5) The path of return through Penance, including the “brother and sister” way of life for couples who cannot separate (children, etc.). (6) The prohibition on pastoral “ceremonies” for divorced remarriages, which would lead to confusion about indissolubility. (7) The motherly concern of the Church, especially for those unjustly abandoned. (8) The firm confidence in God’s grace of conversion. Read in order, the paragraph walks from the problem to the response to the discipline to the path of return to the prohibition to the consolation to the hope. It is not eight rules; it is one pastoral argument.
Section I
§84·1 — The pastoral problem named without softening
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 1)
The problem must be faced with resolution and without delay
Daily experience unfortunately shows that people who have obtained a divorce usually intend to enter into a new union, obviously not with a Catholic religious ceremony. Since this is an evil that, like the others, is affecting more and more Catholics as well, the problem must be faced with resolution and without delay. The Synod Fathers studied it expressly. The Church, which was set up to lead to salvation all people and especially the baptized, cannot abandon to their own devices those who have been previously bound by sacramental marriage and who have attempted a second marriage. The Church will therefore make untiring efforts to put at their disposal her means of salvation.
Section II · The petitioner’s most important paragraph
§84·2 — The duty of careful discernment, and the three categories
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 2)
There is a difference between situations — pastors are obliged to discern
Pastors must know that, for the sake of truth, they are obliged to exercise careful discernment of situations. There is in fact a difference between those who have sincerely tried to save their first marriage and have been unjustly abandoned, and those who through their own grave fault have destroyed a canonically valid marriage. Finally, there are those who have entered into a second union for the sake of the children’s upbringing, and who are sometimes subjectively certain in conscience that their previous and irreparably destroyed marriage had never been valid.
Section III
§84·3 — The pastoral call for the divorced (not separated from the Church)
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 3)
As baptized persons they can, and indeed must, share in her life
Together with the Synod, I earnestly call upon pastors and the whole community of the faithful to help the divorced, and with solicitous care to make sure that they do not consider themselves as separated from the Church, for as baptized persons they can, and indeed must, share in her life. They should be encouraged to listen to the word of God, to attend the Sacrifice of the Mass, to persevere in prayer, to contribute to works of charity and to community efforts in favor of justice, to bring up their children in the Christian faith, to cultivate the spirit and practice of penance and thus implore, day by day, God’s grace. Let the Church pray for them, encourage them and show herself a merciful mother, and thus sustain them in faith and hope.
Section IV · The doctrinal paragraph
§84·4 — The Eucharistic discipline, and its theological grounding
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 4)
The Church reaffirms her practice — with two reasons named
However, the Church reaffirms her practice, which is based upon Sacred Scripture, of not admitting to Eucharistic Communion divorced persons who have remarried. They are unable to be admitted thereto from the fact that their state and condition of life objectively contradict that union of love between Christ and the Church which is signified and effected by the Eucharist. Besides this, there is another special pastoral reason: if these people were admitted to the Eucharist, the faithful would be led into error and confusion regarding the Church’s teaching about the indissolubility of marriage.
Section V · The path of return
§84·5 — The path of return through Penance, and the “brother and sister” way
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 5)
Reconciliation in Penance, opening to the Eucharist
Reconciliation in the sacrament of Penance which would open the way to the Eucharist, can only be granted to those who, repenting of having broken the sign of the Covenant and of fidelity to Christ, are sincerely ready to undertake a way of life that is no longer in contradiction to the indissolubility of marriage. This means, in practice, that when, for serious reasons, such as for example the children’s upbringing, a man and a woman cannot satisfy the obligation to separate, they “take on themselves the duty to live in complete continence, that is, by abstinence from the acts proper to married couples.”
Section VI
§84·6 — The prohibition on quasi-sacramental ceremonies
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 6)
No pastor may perform ceremonies for divorced people who remarry
Similarly, the respect due to the sacrament of Matrimony, to the couples themselves and their families, and also to the community of the faithful, forbids any pastor, for whatever reason or pretext even of a pastoral nature, to perform ceremonies of any kind for divorced people who remarry. Such ceremonies would give the impression of the celebration of a new sacramentally valid marriage, and would thus lead people into error concerning the indissolubility of a validly contracted marriage.
Section VII
§84·7 — Fidelity to Christ, and motherly concern
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 7)
Especially those abandoned through no fault of their own
By acting in this way, the Church professes her own fidelity to Christ and to His truth. At the same time she shows motherly concern for these children of hers, especially those who, through no fault of their own, have been abandoned by their legitimate partner.
Section VIII
§84·8 — The firm confidence in the grace of conversion
Familiaris Consortio §84 (paragraph 8)
Prayer, penance, and charity — the conditions of grace
With firm confidence she believes that those who have rejected the Lord’s command and are still living in this state will be able to obtain from God the grace of conversion and salvation, provided that they have persevered in prayer, penance and charity.
Section IX
Reading §84 alongside CCC §§1650–1651 and Sacramentum Caritatis §29
The same doctrine, said three times across forty-five years
§84 of Familiaris Consortio (1981) is the parent document of the modern magisterial teaching on the pastoral care of the divorced-and-remarried. The Catechism (1992) at §§1650–1651 codified the same teaching catechetically. Sacramentum Caritatis §29 (Benedict XVI, 2007) restated it post-synodally with the explicit institutional endorsement of the marriage tribunal as the response to the validity question. The three documents are not three different teachings; they are one teaching said by three popes (with Paul VI’s receipt of the 1980 Synod standing behind FC), each in the voice and emphasis of his moment. The petitioner reading them in sequence sees:
FC §84 (1981) — the doctrine stated firmly and the categories named. The unjustly abandoned, the gravely culpable, the conscience-conviction case. The discipline (no Eucharistic admission for the divorced-and-remarried while the prior bond endures) and the path (Penance, brother-and-sister continence, perseverance in prayer-penance-charity). The motherly concern preserved.
CCC §§1650–1651 (1992) — the doctrine codified catechetically. “The Church for her part cannot recognize this new union as valid… They cannot receive Eucharistic communion as long as this situation persists,” followed by “Toward Christians who live in this situation, and who often keep the faith and desire to bring up their children in a Christian manner, priests and the whole community must manifest an attentive solicitude, so that they do not consider themselves as separated from the Church.” Each clause is FC §84 said catechetically.
SC §29 (2007) — the doctrine restated with explicit tribunal commendation. Benedict XVI re-grounds the discipline in the Eucharistic-nuptial theology of §§27–29 of the same document, then explicitly names the marriage tribunal as the institutional pastoral response when “legitimate doubts” exist about validity. The “brother and sister” path is restated. The post-Eucharistic return path is articulated with “the Church’s established and approved practice in this regard.”
The petitioner’s use of the trio. Read §84 first — the parent text, the firm statement. Read CCC §§1650–1651 second — the catechetical compression. Read SC §29 third — the magisterial confirmation and the explicit tribunal endorsement. The path of formation of conscience is from the strongest paternal voice to the catechetical summary to the post-synodal reaffirmation. By the time you finish SC §29 you have the same teaching in three registers, and the Companion’s tribunal road will read as obvious.
Section X
A note on Familiaris Consortio and Amoris Laetitia
Reading FC §84 after AL 2016
In March 2016, Pope Francis issued the post-synodal apostolic exhortation Amoris Laetitia, following the 2014 Extraordinary Synod and 2015 Ordinary Synod on the Family. Amoris Laetitia Chapter VIII addresses the pastoral accompaniment of the divorced-and-remarried; certain paragraphs (notably §§300, 303, 305 and footnote 351) generated substantial theological discussion about the relationship between FC §84 and the pastoral accompaniment commended by Amoris Laetitia. The Companion does not adjudicate this discussion. Five things must be said plainly:
1. The text of Familiaris Consortio §84 has not been amended. It stands as papal teaching of 1981 in its full force.
2. The Catechism of the Catholic Church, §§1650–1651, holds the discipline that §84 articulates. The Catechism has not been amended on this point.
3. Sacramentum Caritatis §29 (2007) restates the §84 discipline with the explicit institutional commendation of the marriage tribunal. It has not been amended.
4. Amoris Laetitia (2016) does not, in its plain text, contradict §84; it commends the pathway of personal accompaniment, conscience-formation, and pastoral discernment in particular cases. The interpretive question that arose — whether AL Chapter VIII permits, in certain cases, sacramental admission of some civilly remarried persons not living continence — is one a particular faithful person should bring to the confessor and, where the case warrants it, to the local ordinary; it is not a question the petitioner should attempt to settle in private reading.
5. The petitioner’s practical posture is straightforward: read §84 carefully (you have above); do not attempt to settle the post-AL discussion by yourself; bring the particulars of your case to your confessor and, when the case warrants it, to the judicial vicar of your diocese or the local ordinary. The Companion’s role is to put the primary text in front of you and to direct you to the human persons in the local Church who hold the office of accompaniment. It is not to issue a verdict on your sacramental status.
Source. Ioannes Paulus PP. II, Adhortatio Apostolica Postsynodalis Familiaris Consortio, 22 November 1981, §84. Promulgated in Latin in Acta Apostolicae Sedis 74 (1982) 81–191. Official English translation published by the Holy See at vatican.va. The text quoted above is verbatim from the Holy See English; paragraph divisions inside §84 follow the natural breaks as published by the Holy See. The embedded quotation in §84·5 (“take on themselves the duty to live in complete continence…”) is from John Paul II’s homily at the close of the Sixth Synod of Bishops, 25 October 1980, §7, in AAS 72 (1980) 1082, as cited in the Holy See edition of Familiaris Consortio footnote 180.
What this Companion entry is and is not. The verbatim quotations above are taken from the official Holy See English translation of Familiaris Consortio. The commentary that follows each section is the Companion’s pastoral framing for the petitioner. The commentary is not a substitute for the confessor who knows your particular case, for an advocate or canonist (CIC can. 1481), for the judicial vicar of your diocese, or for the local ordinary’s pastoral guidance in your particular situation. Where the Companion commentary and the priest who knows your case differ on the application of §84 to your particular circumstances, the priest who knows your case governs your sacramental practice. Where the Companion commentary and the magisterial text of Familiaris Consortio differ, the magisterial text governs.
The Pope opens by refusing two evasions. The first evasion would be to soften the language: divorce-and-civil-remarriage is an “evil,” in the literal moral-theological sense (a privation of the good that marriage is). The second evasion would be to wash the Church’s hands of those who fall into it: the Church “cannot abandon to their own devices” those previously bound by sacramental marriage. Both refusals are pastoral. Soft language would damage the truth; abandonment would damage the persons. §84·1 holds the truth and the persons together.
The petitioner’s situation is named by name. “Those who have been previously bound by sacramental marriage and who have attempted a second marriage” — the language is precise: the prior bond is “sacramental” (the case for the validly-married Catholic), and the second is “attempted” (because, on the Church’s reading of indissolubility, a true second sacramental marriage cannot be celebrated while the first endures). If the tribunal’s answer to the validity question is affirmative, the “attempted” second becomes available for true sacramental celebration. If the answer is negative, §84 is the paragraph that names the path forward.
“The Church will therefore make untiring efforts.” This sentence is the seed of the next forty-five years of papal teaching on this question. Sacramentum Caritatis §29 will name the marriage tribunal as the institutional “untiring effort.” Amoris Laetitia Chapter VIII will name the “via caritatis” of personal accompaniment. CCC §1651 will name the participation in the Church’s life that does not depend on the Eucharist. All of these are amplifications of John Paul II’s 1981 promise. The Church will not stop trying.
Read §84·1 again. The pope is telling pastors not to abandon you. He is not telling you to abandon the question. The marriage-tribunal road is one of the “means of salvation” the Church has put at your disposal in fulfillment of this paragraph. Walking it is not selfish or impatient; declining it out of weariness is, in a real sense, declining the resource §84·1 just promised would be available.